Starting the Conversation — I started writing about deconstruction at the start of 2020. I started sharing about harmful ideologies and toxic religious spaces throughout the last couple of years, with a fair few pauses in between. Heavy content and all that. But I’ve been thinking about it again, and what has struck me…

A Poem on Deconstruction and Assurance — your legs come out from underneath you and when you try to stop yourself from falling arms behind you, back arching there is no ground left to catch you. so you either sink in to the fall or you struggle against it — pretend that you are not falling either…

Some Unpopular Thoughts on RUOK Day — As someone who has been both very okay, and very not okay, let me tell you… This day feels like every attempt Scott Morrison has had at being Prime Minister. Like, you kinda tried, but you fucked up at basically every opportunity. You know? Here we are. In 2021. California…

An Affirmation — no matter what you have been told darling – your wisdom is enough. see the way your body moves expands with every breath it changes grows heals comes to know. and you, you have expanded just the same. with every moment every experience your heart has seen so far. you are growing. your wisdom is enough.

Thoughts on the Rollercoaster of Identity — Have you ever spent so much time with somebody that you adopted their words? Their little go-to phrases? The way their voice lilts on certain sounds and their tongue curls around others? What about their mannerisms? …

The pain ends but this is harder to shake… — What’s worse than getting hurt? If you’re in the middle of pain, of any kind, you would probably sob through the understandable answer: nothing. Nothing is worse than this. Right? I feel you, babe. I’ve seen my share of pain. I’ve dealt with loss. I’ve faced down grief. I’ve let…

Honest Words on Objectification — I’m tired. I’m tired of reading media talking about Australian Politicians dodging rape and assault allegations. I’m tired of watching them get away with it. I’m tired of watching their reputations maintained. Nothing but an awkward moment we won’t talk about in a few weeks. And so the wheels keep…

Let’s Break the Taboo. — No, really. No one talks about leaving. Maybe it’s taboo. Maybe it’s because people are afraid that if they talk about it, it’ll happen more. We don’t talk about leaving church because we’re scared people will actually leave church. We don’t talk about leaving marriages or long-term relationships because we’re…

An Open Letter to the Church — Hi church, I know it’s been a while since we last spoke. Well, until last year when I came out of the blue and wrote you that letter. Here’s the thing, I wrote that it had been so long since I had considered you. But thats not entirely true. Although…